Statisticians will often throw around this phrase, “sample size,”
when referring to a set of data that is unlikely to be repeated due to its
relatively short sustainability. For example, a baseball player could hit two
home runs in his first game. That does not mean that, because there are 161
games left in the season, he will continue onwards to hit 324 dingers.
Unfortunately the same logic has been applied to athlete
fathers. From Calvin Murphy, to Karl
Malone, to Antonio
Cromartie, because of all the horror stories we hear in the news, people assume
athletes are inherently poor guardians. I’d like to take a look at some of the
best dads in today's sports world, whose stories don't get nearly as much
recognition as they should:
Dwyane
Wade: 16.9 Points Per Game, 4.9 Assists Per Game, 4.1 Rebounds Per Game, 2.0
Children Salvaged.
For a successful professional athlete
like Dwyane Wade, it is nearly impossible to sneeze without the allergy
becoming a controversial and prodigious story line on ESPN's ticker, making
what he did is so momentous. After a very drawn out and messy divorce from his
ex-wife Siohvaughn, Wade plunged back into the infamous spotlight to try
and salvage his kids from the settlement. For a long period of time after his
divorce in June of 2010, Dwyane received little to no time with his two sons,
Zaire and Zion. No one would have blamed him for taking the easy way out,
leaving the Z's with Siohvaughn, and just focusing on basketball. But that
just didn't lie right with the 2006 Finals MVP. When Dwyane was a child, his
parents split up, and in this article, he
remembered how important it was for
him to be able to spend time with his dad. Obviously, Dwyane grew up in an
impoverished Chicago neighborhood, while Zaire and Zion live in wealthy South
Florida, but the role of a father remains the same. So, throughout the season,
Wade was making trips to Chicago on off-days to settle his custody case, which
he finally won in March
of 2011. Now that he finally has time to spend with his kids, it is amazing
what he is doing. With help from his mother, sister, and a nanny, his boys have
been all over the place. Post-It notes flank the walls of Miami's PG's mansion;
reminders for karate lessons, Spanish classes, doctor's appointments, and
birthday parties. He is taking his vow to his children seriously. Playing for
the Heat is now his second job, and his efforts have been appreciated by
President Barack Obama, who made Wade the figure head of a new program to get
father's to become more involved in their children's lives. When asked what he
would be doing on Father's Day he simply replied, "The last two months
have been Father's Day."
Derrek Lee:
331 Home Runs, 1959 Hits, 10678 Runs Batted In, .281 Batting Average, 3000
cases of Lebers Congenital Amaurosis in America.
Fame can be used for a lot of
things. It can get you money (see
Kardashian, Kim). It can get you women (see
Jeter, Derek). It can get you in trouble (see
Woods, Tiger). Or it could help find a cure for Leber's
Congenital Amaurosis. When Derrek Lee's daughter Jada was diagnosed with
the rare, but horrific, eye disease in 2007, it took him about two weeks to
initiate Project 3000, whose purpose was to identify the estimated 3,000 LCA
cases in the United States and discover what gene causes the disease, which can
lead to blindness. The initial endeavor for this benevolent organization would
cost about $3 million. With Lee's fame, coupled with his likability and good
reputation in the league, many players reached out right away. Ryan Dempster
donated $50,000 immediately, followed by $1,000 more for each of his
strikeouts. Former Cubs catcher Michael Barrett also pledged $50 grand, with a
$10,000 increase for each home run he hit. Lee knew what he was doing: "We
as athletes are able to reach a lot of people quicker than someone who might
not get the media attention. When it's your daughter, you do what you can. It's
a very rare disease, so 99 percent of the country hasn't heard of it. We just
want to bring awareness to it." It's quite a pleasant surprise to see an athlete
do something good with the spotlight.
To donate
to Derrek Lee's program, Project 3000, please click here, and the former
Cub's specific charity is First Touch.
Dick Hoyt:
234 Triathlons, 21 Duathlons, 67 Marathons, 1 Quadriplegic Son
Dick Hoyt. What else can be said
about this guy. Though probably the least recognizable name of the three
'superdads' listed here, his story might be the most miraculous. Dick's
son, Rick, was born a spastic quadriplegic with a severe case of cerebral
palsy. Doctors informed the Hoyt's that their son had no chance to live a
'normal' life, and it took until Rick was 13 for him to be allowed in the
public schools. A computer was built for him that allowed him to express
himself by highlighting letters to create sentences. His first one? "Go
Bruins!" When a local lacrosse player was paralyzed, Rick expressed
interest in participating in the 5 mile run in his benefit. Though the 37 year
National Guard Veteran Dick was not the best distance runner, he agreed to push
his son through the race, finishing next to last. After the race, Rick told his
father, "Dad, when I'm running, it feels like I'm not handicapped."
That sentence changed Dick's life. If there was anything he
could do to help his son feel 'normal,' he was all in. Since that initial race,
Team Hoyt, as they've been dubbed, has participated in over 1,000 races,
including marathons, triathlons, iron mans, and even a 45 day, 3,735 mile trip
across the country. The story of Dick's love for his son has touched the hearts
of many, including this particular blog writer. If Team Hoyt is to teach
us anything, and it can teach us a LOT, it is that there is no barrier that a
father/son bond cannot break, no obstacle it can't overcome, no race it cannot
run.



Great things happen when famous people put their fame and wealth to good use. Sometimes it seems like they're just doing it for more publicity, but whatever the reason, it produces beneficial effects. One of my favorite tennis players, Roger Federer (now almost topping 30 years!) started his own foundation in Malawi to help bring education to the illiterate and underserved population. Because of his reputation, he has been able to partner with Credit Suisse and convince thousands of others to aide him in this cause. Check it out! http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=WV0Ete4q8JQ
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